I’ve been wanting to write about the birth of our sweet baby girl, but as you can imagine – I’ve been a tad bit busy lately. ha! Addie is sleeping now, so I wanted to take advantage of this small window of time to document her birth.
On Wednesday, September 7th, I had a suspicion that my water was leaking. Since I’ve never been pregnant before, I didn’t really know for sure. Apparently, only about 15% of women’s water breaks before they go into labor – so the likelihood of this happening was rather small. I already had a regular appointment set up that afternoon for my 38 week check up. I called my OB’s office and was told to just keep my regular appointment. Kyle and I went in for my appointment and after a couple of tests was told that it wasn’t my water leaking and that there was no visible progress of labor – so I was sent home. We had brought all of our packed bags and supplies just in case they told us that we needed to go to the hospital – but it turned out we didn’t need it.
I felt a bit baffled because I knew something was going on, but I went about my day. Kyle and I went to Wednesday night church activities (choir and youth). All was well – until late that evening/early in the morning. I don’t think we went to bed until around midnight, but I continued to have symptoms of what I thought for SURE was my water leaking. It was even more evident than earlier in the day. After some freaking out (LOL) and Kyle urging me to call the midwife – I finally made the call. After describing what was happening, the midwife told me to come on in to labor and delivery so they could run some more tests.
Thankfully our bags were ready to go – so at about 2:00 am we headed down to Morton Plant. I ate a banana in the car because I knew I wouldn’t be able to eat once I got there. I was admitted at around 2:20ish. Tests were run and within minutes they confirmed that YES my water had broken!!!! I knew it! So at that point we weren’t going back home – we were gonna have our baby girl!! It was a crazy feeling. I started getting a little bit anxious but it didn’t last long, thankfully. Once I was all checked in, they moved us to a labor and delivery room where I was hooked up on monitors to show the progress of my contractions and little one’s heart rate. Kyle had a rather nice couch bed to sleep on – although neither of us did much sleeping. I was having contractions, but they weren’t progressing as quickly as they wanted so they put me on Pitocin which speeds up contractions. Since my water had broken, it is typical that they want you to deliver the baby within 24 hours to prevent infection – so that is why I was on Pitocin. Labor was going rather smoothly. I could feel contractions every five minutes or so and they really weren’t too bad. By 7:30 in the morning, the midwife on call came by to check and see if I had made any progress – by that time I was 3 centimeters dilated. It was encouraging to hear! I continued laboring and used some techniques I learned about in our birthing class – like using the birthing ball and standing up/walking around during contractions. I didn’t have an epidural yet, so I was able to eat liquids. I had a delicious Italian ice and some apple juice. It was amazing!
I fully anticipated getting an epidural. I definitely admire all women who have unmedicated births. I went into this with the mindset that I would go as long as I could without the epidural – but was totally ok getting one when I really needed it. The nurse on duty during the majority of my labor (Patti – she was amazing!) kept checking in on me to see if I wanted the epidural yet. Things were certainly getting more intense as the day went on, but I kept pressing on. The main reason is that I was told that if I got the epidural too soon that it can potentially stall labor. I also heard that it could “wear off” (in reality your body just gets used to it) and I didn’t want that to happen! It was my plan to wait until my next check to see how far along I was and then I’d make the decision at that point. Well, several hours went by since the 7:30 am check and the midwife hadn’t come back to check on my progress. Kyle asked the nurse that afternoon when I was going to be checked again, and the nurse said they were waiting for me to tell them when I wanted the epidural. Once I got the epidural they would then do the check. I was unaware of this LOL! Things had really gotten intense – the nurse had cranked the Pitocin up and the contractions were about a minute apart and very intense. I couldn’t talk through them and was really gripping the fire out of Kyle’s hands! At that point I finally decided it was time and I was actually worried that I had gone too long. It probably took the anesthesiologist 30 minutes to arrive. He had an assistant with him who was talking to me and having me sign all these forms before I could get the epidural. It was quite humorous because I did not listen to a word she said nor did I have any idea what I was signing. My signature looked like a third grader learning cursive for the first time! The pain was so intense at that point!
A lot of people say that the epidural hurts more than labor – but I beg to differ. It was just a little prick to numb the area and a little bit of pressure. I am not afraid of needles though, so I’m sure that helped. It was a little nerve wracking since there can be risks involved. Kyle told me after the fact that he was most nervous watching me get the epidural. But thankfully all went smoothly and relief came very quickly. I am amazed that I was able to sit still during contractions while he gave me the epidural! Once the epidural kicked in, the midwife came and checked me to see how far along I was. It turned out that I had made it all the way to 10 centimeters!! I couldn’t believe it! Since I had the epidural at that point, they let me “labor down” for about an hour and half. They took the Pitocin levels way down and let my body contract on it’s own. I will say that it was incredibly weird for me to not really be able to feel my legs. They were numb but I was still able to move them – but didn’t really know I was moving them. That part freaked me out the most. The nurse and midwife told me to try and get some rest, but there were a couple of areas where the epidural was not working and it made it hard to actually sleep. The nurse kept pumping me with more of the epidural, but it wasn’t really working in this one spot on my left side. So about an hour and a half went by and the pain wasn’t going away, so the nurse said she was just going to check with the midwife to see if I could go ahead and start pushing since I was already far enough along.
Soon the midwife came and it was showtime! Kyle was on one side and the nurse was on the other – they helped me with the pushing. I will say that I had so much of the epidural that I literally couldn’t feel anything. I honestly didn’t even know I was pushing. It was so bizarre. I will say that pushing took the most energy out of me. At one point the nurse put an oxygen mask on me in between pushing, and I thought it was because I was about to pass out or something. It was very nice and comforting. I soon found out that she was giving the oxygen to me so that it could get to our baby because apparently SHE needed it! LOL! Things regulated and the nurse said that I didn’t need the oxygen anymore – but I asked if I could still have it for myself because it helped keep me calm in between pushes. It was basically a placebo effect – but I didn’t care. It took me about an hour and half of pushing before our sweet baby girl arrived. One of the coolest things is that the midwife let Kyle help pull her out a little bit – and then the midwife told me “reach out your hands and get your baby!” and I was like “WHAT?!” and she said it again. I was totally not expecting that, but I basically pulled her out and placed her on my chest. It was crazy and amazing and I totally cried – especially when she started crying. It was so incredible. She was officially born at 6:48 pm on September 8th, 2016!
Kyle was such a huge support the entire time. He was the only one in the delivery room which is how I wanted it. The whole experience felt so laid back and non stressful. Once Addie was born there were several nurses there running all their routine tests on her. For the first several minutes, Addie just stayed on top of me (they call it skin to skin – which is very good for the baby) while they did a lot of the testing. Our sweet girl was healthy and doing great! She weighed 7 lbs 13 oz and was 21 inches long. She came out with a full head of dark brown hair! The hospital does not give newborns baths until 12 hours after they are born because babies are born with vernix that is a protective coating on their skin and has benefits outside the womb. I will say it was so sweet when the nurse did give her a bath the next day though!
Later that evening our families came in the delivery room to meet our sweet girl! They were only allowed to see her for a few minutes because we had to get transferred to a Mom and Baby room and their hours were more strict for visitors. It was awesome because my brother Joey and his new wife Yulia were visiting from Ukraine and were supposed to leave before her due date. It was an answer to prayer that they got to meet her before they left! During this time I also was able to eat a meal! I was soooooo hungry as you can imagine. I had chicken tenders and fries from the hospital cafeteria and they were AMAZING!
We were later transferred to a different room that evening which is where we spent the next two nights. The bed for Kyle in this room was so uncomfortable but he was a trooper. I had a nice comfy bed, but unfortunately I was a bit sore from delivery and was pretty uncomfortable the whole time we were there. I did manage to get a shower the next day which was so nice. Our parents came by the next day to visit a bit longer. My sister also visited. She got to witness Kyle changing one of Addie’s poopy diapers. That little girl sure let him have it! She kept pooping and peeing while he was trying to change her. It was hilarious. Kyle entered the world of Dadhood quite naturally and wonderfully – he was confident holding her, changing her diapers and clothes, and just tending to her needs. I fell more in love with him as I watched him be Daddy to our little girl. I am so thankful for his help and know that I could not do any of this without him!
Our entire experience at Morton Plant was incredible. The nursing staff were ALL amazing! We felt so very well taken care of! Kyle and I both were born at Morton Plant, so it was special that our daughter was also born here. I am so thankful for how everything went and I praise God for his goodness and that he took care of us like he always does. I will forever be thankful to him for this precious gift!
There are a million little details that I could still write about – but I think I’ve recapped more than enough! Here are some photos that capture our time at the hospital.
Here we are heading to labor and delivery at 2:30 in the morning!
This is it!
Not the most flattering angle! ha!
Kyle trying to catch some zzz’s in the “Comfy” bed
Me watching my contractions on the monitor
Apple juice – yum!
Aren’t those hospital gowns so flattering!
Here I am on the labor ball – this thing was actually pretty awesome. I look so big because the hospital gown is wrapped around the ball LOL!
Italian ice – it was delicious!
Welcome to the world little one!
It’s amazing how their little heads squish to make their entrance into the world. Don’t worry, she has a beautiful head – it’s not cone shaped! haha!
Fresh outta the womb!
Daddy’s first time holding you!
I look awful here – but I did just go through several hours of labor and I was hungry! The midwife took this of me! HA!
Skin to skin with daddy!
Daddy changing her diaper!
Getting her first bath!
Look at all that dark hair! Love it!
Snuggly baby!
Aunt Libby came to visit!
My turn! 🙂